Conflict happens when
two people disagree based on their own goals, values, or beliefs. Parents and
teenagers inherently have many opportunities to have conflict. Adolescence is a
time when independence and parental influence conflict. Conflict is in the
simple as an argument. Conflict is what happened right before the argument.
That's what two people disagreed about before they started calling each other
names.
The ability for an
adolescent to be able to think on his own and yet have parents who have rules
and expectations sets the pair of for conflict. Teenagers don't necessarily
hold the same beliefs and values as their parents, and their goal to have fun
conflicts with parents’ goal to keep them safe. Curfew is a classic topic for
parents and teenagers to argue about. It doesn't really matter what parents set
the curfew, when kids don't show up when they're supposed to be home and makes
parents worried. A worried parent becomes a scolding parent. So when the teen
does come home, he gets an earful and a stiff punishment
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